Saturday, November 7, 2009

A Response to Ms. Harrison

Ms. Harrison,

Well said. I agree with many things you have said. In a perfect world the art would exist solely for itself. However, its not a perfect world. Thank you also for your frustration, for one of my desires has been to share that emotion with others about what has transpired

The ballet isn't just for that one girl. The ballet is for everyone. For the seven year old who gets her first chance to dance in a real performance, and for her family sitting in the audience. Its for the man who discovered the joy of dance after high school and who has danced just as many years as the senior company girl.

Twelve years at the back of the class and three years being admired. Thats a wonderful sentiment. However, you sound as if ballet ends at eighteen. For the truly gifted, those really able to bring tears to an audience, their careers are just beginning at eighteen. Now they are at the back of the studio again hoping to one day be "that" dancer.

A child terrified to perform but goes on anyway. Everyone experiences that fear, how wonderful to learn to overcome it at an early age. There are adults who will never be able to perform, or even speak, on stage due to horrible stage fright. However, much more often I see the joy on the tiny dancers face and the pride in the parents, as the dancer executes their first true ballet move for the audience.

If you are able to bring tears to an audience, should you not be able to continue your dance. Instead will you become the shrewish mother who demands her daughter get promoted in the company. The mother who throws money at the school in order for her daughter to have a better part. Maybe, you become the frustrated part-time ballet teacher who lives out her abbreviated career trough her daughter. That Ms Harrison happens much more often than a local high school dancer in Columbus, Ga bringing tears in an audience to anyone other than her family.

You speak of discipline. the discipline to do as you are taught and told. Do you think the girl in New York will care one iota if the male dancer she partners with smells like a beer? Could be Gin and cigarettes and she would dance because the director let her. But noooooo....Mommie he smells bad I don't want to dance with him. Please, grow up. He might not be happy that he has to dance with you either. That doesn't sound like discipline to me. EVERYONE is paying to be there, not just the company girls, and some are paying with their own money.

Maybe, as you get a little older you will become like my wife. Who finds as much joy now, in being able to perform a leap or a turn just right in class, as when she was a child. She has danced with all the teachers at this school and many other as she has moved around during her life including New York. This exposure, to not just many different ballet instructors but also styles, has given her a unique multidimensional insight many here don't have.

I hope that you will continue to dance. Anyone reading your comments will be able to see the love you have for the art. However, with every passing year you will find it more difficult to find a studio that will allow you to dance. Not only that, it will be difficult to find a good studio that will let you dance. We found both here when we returned to Columbus.

When you are young the world is somewhat one dimensional, sort of like standing on one side of a large building not knowing what is around either corner. As you age, you begin to walk around those corners and see new things as well as look back from where you came differently. The statement that ballet is not about grants and funding shows your naivete. The art cannot exist without the money. Money makes the world go round and money is one reason this whole thing started.
It seems that some people feel that money entitles they and their children.

Without money where is the venue that allows the crowds to comfortably watch the dancers. Where does the violinist, or is a tape alright for that. Without money where is the school and the teachers to teach the dancer so that she may learn to elicit those tears.

A few people with money wanted their daughters to have better parts and positions in the company. Expel a dancer because she cannot do a double pirouette, how about taking the double pirouette out of the piece so that the monetarily elevated dancer might be able to dance it.

Again I tell you that a performance lives or dies on the executive director and the artistic director. When Mrs Hirsch stated, in the parents meeting after Mr. Herriott was fired, That she could pull off the Nutcracker in seven weeks she put the yoke on her shoulders. It was this assertion to the Board that prompted the sudden firing and it was that same deed that prompted this blog.

The seven weeks are more than half-way gone. Hundreds of lives have been affected by that one statement by Mrs. Hirsch. I hope it was worth it to her.

You do seem a little confused about things. To my knowledge there is no Millie and Dan that have anything to do with the ballet. Those are simply characters in a little piece of fiction that I have been writing for my nephew (who loves it). Nick Saban maybe a stretch, but a good hook to attract attention to the blog.

12 comments:

  1. I believe Hayden spoke for many of the dancers. It's sad that a bunch of adults have to make such a sad, pathetic and childish display. Why can't we all just grow up and move on. Things happen everyday that we may or may not agree with. What matters is how we move on from them. You are not changing anything by writing this stuff. You are just like the person who sent out the anonymous letter except you are willing to tell others who you are. You can speak by leaving the ballet and choosing another location to learn. That's how America Works. It wasn't your company, it wasn't your business, it wasn't any of yours. The board can do what it likes... that's why it's there. We are paying customers. If walmart fires it's CEO are you going to start a blog and complain... of course not. We ALL APPLAUD Hayden for what she wrote... I'm KNOW she is not the only one that feels that way and she spoke for many. All of this garbage needs to stop. Yes, you have the wonderful freedom of speech, and the only reason people read this is to see how low you can go. Do you not have anything better to do with your time. As a parent of a dancer who desired to stay away from the gossip and away from the garbage let's stop it. Nobody cares anymore. David is gone, he's working in Alablama. He's not coming back. You can't bring him back. We liked David. The board made it's decision. You don't own the company. Maria has more years in this company than anyone and she doesn't want it to die. She stepped up when David stepped down so that her life's work wouldn't go away. No, it wasn't a dance company that had 100's of dancers... But, I will tell you this, there was none of the garbage that's going on now. So maybe with fewer dancers that meant fewer CRAZY parents!!!
    Let the kids dance and the parents need to take a step down and realize they don't own stock in the company. It's your agency as a paying customer to take your money elsewhere. There is always Cottrell dance on Armour Rd. I see that they have MANY Trophy's in there window.

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  2. Wow, I think you failed to read the "If you don't like it don't read it post"!

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  3. Mr. Ward. If the Artistic Director or Choreographer were to tell you that your daughter can get hurt because of the level of difficulty of the dance, would you insist that she dance it anyway? How about if she is partnering and the partner does not have the necessary training and can hurt your daughter... Would you let her dance just because he is 6 feet tall. Please, lets be fair here, we are talking about our sons and daughters in a discipline where they can get seriously hurt. Maria has been around just as along or longer than David and if she see's that your daughter may get hurt, you will be damn happy to know that she is looking out for her safety.

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  4. The Artistic Director and the Choreographer were the same, Mr. Herriott. That male dancer had partnered in dances for Mr. Herriott before and done quite well. In fact, during the weeks following the rebellious withdrawal by Kelsey and her three friends, he had been practicing the part with another dancer and doing just fine. Furthermore, Mrs. Hirsch had requested that Kelsey have a solo in that dance prior to any of this happening. Mr. Herriott denied the request due to the choreography calling for a duet. It seems Mrs. Hirsch just found another way to make that happen. Thanks for the question, it makes a good point(again) about the improprietty of the situation.

    Have you read the bio's? REALLY SERIOUSLY

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  6. Why thanks for the well-wishing Kory, but darlin the facts are the facts.

    And the Blog...I've been pretty happy with it.

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  8. Mr. Joines,
    Sorry I got a little off there on my last post. Basically I like to keep it friendly.

    Anyway you say facts are facts but you don't present them. I don't see any. For instance, what facts do you have that prove that Maria wanted Kelsey to do a solo and made up that story about Ben. I would really like to see that fact. Let's start with that one and without hearsay because both of us know that that is not fact. Start with that one and get me on your side.

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  9. Okay Kory, but I am not sure which factual story you want about Ben. The one in which Mrs. Hirsch sent somewhat suggestive text messages to Ben. Ben posted the text on facebook, and I have seen it on his phone. As far as being able to do the dance, The mother of the girl he was practicing with has a very nice copy of them dancing together. If its digital and I can find someone smart enough, maybe I can post it here or get her to post it on youtube so I could sway you to my side. In fact, if he had not been leaving they would have performed it at another studio in December.

    And again, thanks for asking good questions.



    You are right about the solo. That was hearsay. But since Mrs Hirsch didn't choreograph for Kelsey to dance ANYTHING but solo's, it does seem plausible.

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  10. No, what I asked was the facts that proved that Maria was shooting for a solo and needed to take out Ben using the excuse of his lack of training.

    Mr. Joines, Maria also knows what she is doing and she and David did not agree on this one. She even wrote a letter to David (I can ask Maria for a copy) saying that if David did not agree, she and Kelsey will be willing to accept being removed from the Snow (the part in question). Mr. Joines, it was a safety issue and always a safety issue, nothing else.

    This is fact and again I can ask Maria for the actual email that would have the date and time stamp.

    So to her surprise David did not agree and he removed Kelsey from Snow and from the entire Production where she had several other parts. Again, it is on the email. So Maria got mad and she removed herself as well.

    I have these facts and can gladly show them to you assuming Mrs. Hirsch allows me.

    There many other issues you present here that follow the same pattern which is using half-truths, start with something that is true and change the outcome.

    Mr. Joines, I ask for you to be fair, perhaps set up an appointment with someone from the board or Mrs. Hirsch if necessary and ask these questions. Things are so different than what you present. The TCB girls are now coming together, with very little animosity amongst them according to 3 girls I asked.

    Now it is up to us Parents to get together and work for a successful production. Those dancers deserve nothing less.

    One last thing, and this is off the subject, David wanted a Community Ballet, and that is what he did, very simple choreographies, repeat them every year, kind of like "Babe Ruth League" in baseball...if we compare it to baseball. On the other hand, Maria wants a semi-professional company, kind of like triple A in baseball, where the training, discipline and standards are higher, almost at a professional level. She had achieved this before she resigned in 2002. And for your info, she resigned because of family issues. She had a couple of babies and her husband had a fulltime job plus running the studio, so she was not force out, kicked out or anything like that. She resigned and continued helping out with the teaching.

    I can probably find some of the board member from back then to confirm what I am saying.

    Anyway, got to catch some "Z's"

    Let's hope for a great Nutcracker and let our dancers show us what they've got!


    Kory

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  11. Kory, its sounds as if you are reading Mrs. Hirsch's press releases. You asked for the facts about Ben's safety and I gave it. Mrs. Hirsch can look back at the past with rose colored glasses all she wants to, thats fine. Triple A baseball isn't semi-pro it is most definately professional Mrs. Hirsch's was certainly not either. From what she said in that early response it sounded like she was jealous of Cottrells. NO ONE I have spoken to has said anything other than that Mr. Herriott raised the level of dance trememdously.

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  12. Mr. Joines, first, I enjoy your writing style and your use of humor but I must make a request to please do not disrespect mothers as you did in a recent post about the mother of the board member who fought for getting her child's costume. The remark about Igor was funny, but I don't think appropriate. Mother's are sacred. By the way, I am a big fan of Young Frankenstein...

    I agree that David did great stuff for the company. He continued the progression that Maria had started in '96. He had the ability to get money to pay for the symphony and many things, and he was an awesome Drosselmeyer. Now the symphony will hopefully be a permanent part of this as long as there is money, thanks to David.

    But haven't you noticed that every year the choreography is the same? No changes what so ever. So David put it up and for 5 years we have been seeing the same thing. I could probably dance the whole thing since I have seen it so much. You arrange that they fit me in a tutu and I will do it, all the scenes. My daughters and their friends where excited to finally do a different choreography.

    However, who trained all the girls that David inherited. It was Maria. And you can ask any of the older girls (older because they have more experience)and they have told me that Maria is the real thing, as an instructor she had those girls like soldiers. Tough, disciplined and well trained and they all respected and loved her. I have known her since the days she had her own studio and my daughters have been products of her training since 1994. By the way, another fact you may not know is that her school only taught classical ballet, nothing else, no Jazz or Tap or the Watusi, Just classical ballet and she had 175 students from what her husband showed me on a list. There were a lot of students that just wanted Classical Ballet, and why, well I guess she was just that good. That school was like a military academy and the girls loved it. Maria had great leadership and everyone respected her.

    Mr. Joines, I know what I am talking about because I have lived it. Maria did amazing things to get the Columbus Ballet started and handed David a first class company. And I am specifically referring to the quality of training, which is really what shows a company, not the scenery or costumes, but the quality of all the dancers.

    The first production was funded by a parent who saw the light. He was also the first president of the board. Every year she added more and more. Who do think bought all the scenery and backdrops... It was not David. I have tapes of the Nutcracker from 1997-2002 and you can see the scenery there. You can also see that each year the choreography was different. Not a cookie cutter choreography like we had recently. Maria did these for 7 years plus. In the spring she would do full out classics, not excerpts, but classics. I have some videos of these in case you would like to see them. My favorite was COPELLIA. To raise the level of the ballet she would insist on bring professional dancers for the main female and male role.Some folks from the audience would question if the senior company dancers were also guest dancers. I also have a tape of her, Maria, dancing the role of GISELLE IN '97. This was the performance that convinced me that even as a dancer she was a true professional.

    Each year TCB got better and better, the dancers got stronger. The quality of the dancers was way above anything else in Columbus. You may like Cottrel, but talk to Ms. Melissa who had a school here and ask her about Maria's school.
    These are facts which I can back up since I have "been around for a while", I was there and could bring you an Army of admirers, such as myself.

    I even wrote a song and it goes like this,

    "All We Are Saying, is Give Her A Chance".... (repeat about 50 times)

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